Today has been a reminder to try and get the balance right, if that is possible, between the benefits and peacefulness of seclusion in one's own quiet space and the risks associated with shutting oneself out from everyone and everything.
Fortunately, I am never totally alone, as Blossom, my springer spaniel companion, is constantly with me, whether we are out walking the meadows or when I am in my room relaxing, emailing, reading, watching TV or snoozing. The only place she does not accompany me, is when I am working in the garden, either cutting the lawn or on the veg patch. This degree of none verbal companionship has a lot to be said for it, in so far as, it does not present the type of stresses and strains that contact with other people, occasionally does.
I do not think it is particularly beneficial for anyone to be in total isolation other than for a very short period. However, a degree of occasional seclusion is likely to benefit most people. A time to switch off, to relax, to reflect on issues, to recharge one's batteries, to see a brighter horizon beyond the clouds.
I am currently having to work at getting, what for me will be, a healthy balance in relation to the above. Periods of seclusion can be interpreted as withdrawal and not wishing to communicate and to a degree, it is. However, not necessarily in the way that it might be perceived by others. I find it helps with, clarity of thought and presents the opportunity to sort the wheat from the chaff, in respect of so many aspect of human behaviour, including my own. However, too much seclusion could ultimately lead to isolation, which may then create far greater communication problems both within the home and with others.
In summary, as with most things, a balanced approach usually results in the best outcome.
JSAFGA
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