Some days are better than others, sometimes our spirit's are uplifted for a variety a of reasons. Sometimes only a relatively small occurrence can set us back. To occasionally focus on our own particular situation can be healthy, as part of a reality check. However, I find it helpful not to linger too long, on the variety of relatively minor enforced amendments to life, as a result of one's condition. As with everyone too much introspection can distract from the opportunities one still has to brighten one's own and other's days and to help lighten their burden. Our carer is the one most deserving of this support.
To be seen to be having a positive approach to life, can be uplifting to others, as well as oneself and can be a positive boost to the one shouldering the main responsibility for our care. With the resulting positivity, high spirits and the associated tendency, nowadays, for the mouth to engage before the brain, my approach is to go with the flow. Although sometimes this may result in slight alienation or cause raised eyebrows among a few, on balance, the benefits to both oneself and one's loved one, outweighs any resulting negativity from others.
To try and stay positive, is the least one can do for both ourselves and those who care for us. When the occasion arises that the negative aspects come into focus, we are better equipped to minimise their impact. We can then continue journeying on our "good life with dementia".
JSAFGA
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